There are many things we might learn from Paul.
I asked ChatGPT and she/he/it/they spewed out the following in no time at all!
This is super! Philemon is left in a quandary as to whether he should act voluntarily or by compulsion!!
“15 For perhaps he departed for a while for this purpose, that you might receive him forever, 16 no longer as a slave but more than a slave—a beloved brother, especially to me but how much more to you, both in the flesh and in the Lord.
17 If then you count me as a partner, receive him as you would me. 18 But if he has wronged you or owes anything, put that on my account. 19 I, Paul, am writing with my own hand. I will repay—not to mention to you that you owe me even your own self besides. 20 Yes, brother, let me have joy from you in the Lord; refresh my heart in the Lord.
21 Having confidence in your obedience, I write to you, knowing that you will do even more than I say.”!
Philemon is putty in Paul’s hands!!